New thinking on used cribs

May 26th, 2010

I’m constantly being asked the question: “What baby products should I not buy used because they’re unsafe?” This sort of question often comes from parents who are savvy with navigating Craig’s List. The site is a popular way to buy used baby products from local fellow parents and, in fact, I’ve bought and sold my kids’ products on Craig’s List myself.

As it turns out, there are lots of baby products you shouldn’t buy used. I’m finding, though, that my list of “what not to buy used” is constantly changing, as safety standards get updated. Toys, for example, used to be on my ”okay to buy used” list. But since toy safety standards were revised as part of the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act of 2008, I’m generally not recommending buying used toys unless they’re new or look like new since they might have been made before 2009, when the new toy safety standards got implemented. The new standards ban three types of phthalates, a chemical in plastic, and lower the bar on the permissible lead limit in paint applied to children’s products.   

On the other hand, cribs used to be on my “don’t buy used list.” But if you buy a stationary crib (no-drop sides), as we now recommend in Consumer Reports Best Baby Products, a stationary crib now seems okay to buy used, provided that all the slats are sturdy.

A stationary crib has no potentially dangerous drop sides.

 A stationary crib is a solid piece of furniture; the danger with drop sides, which can malfunction over time or be installed incorrectly, is eliminated. But here’s the catch: If you decide to buy a used stationary crib, know the date it was manufactured. The safest stationary cribs were made after August 2009, which coinsides with the new lead paint standards.

Feel free to chime in!

What baby products have you bought used? What tips can you offer other parents who may be considering going this route?

Have you tried the iPhone scanner app at Myregistry.com?

May 24th, 2010

myregistry app is available at iTunes for $1.99.

A reader, Carla, asked me that question recently. I have an iPhone but I haven’t tried that App yet. Have you?

I think it’s an ingenious idea. The Myregistry App turns your iPhone into a bar code scanner so you can add items to your baby registry gift list as you shop. iPod Touch and iPad users can use it too by entering UPC codes while offline. They can retrieve them later to add to their registry.

What are your thoughts on the Myregistry App? What others Apps do you use to make your life as a Mom, Dad or parent-to-be easier?

Save Dollars on Diapers

May 20th, 2010

The other day, I chatted with Louise and Garen, radio hosts of The Frugal Yankee. (Love their site, BTW, www.frugalyankee.com.) We were talking diapers, specifically how to save money on them. They wanted to know about the age-old question: How much can you save by going with cloth diapers vs. disposables? The answer: Hundreds if not at least $1,000 by the time your baby is out of diapers by using cloth instead of disposables–if you’re willing to do lots of laundry detail (and not use a diaper service). Forget pins and plastic pants. If I were doing it all over again, I’d definitely try out pocket and/or all-in-one reusable diapers such as Fuzzibunz (www.fuzzibunz.com) or Bummis (www.bummis.com). They take cloth diapers to a new, more convenient and doable level for a fraction of the long-term costs of disposables (which amounts to roughly $2,500 by the time your baby is diaper-free). But cloth/reusable diapers aren’t for everybody. Maybe you hate to do laundry, for example, or your baby is in daycare, in which case, you’ll need to use disposables some of the time, or your baby is prone to diaper rash. As you probably know from previous posts, disposables have done wonders for eliminating irritant diaper rashes.

Stores and Websites often put diapers on sale as "loss leaders" to induce parents to shop there, so take advantage of good deals.

In any event, here are three more ways to save on both types of diapers:

–Shop Wal-Mart and Target. You’ll find rock-bottom prices on disposable and reusable diapers at www.walmart.com and www.target.com. Don’t be afraid to try the store brand and save at least 3 cents per diaper with every change. (It adds up!) 

–Visit www.drugstore.com, www.diapers.com, www.amazon.com, and www.cvs.com for good deals on name-brand and store-brand diapers (and save yourself a trip to the store) and stock up at sale time.

–Save on regular deliveries. Amazon’s Subscribe and Save program, which pops up at the checkout, offers the best deal if you sign up for regular deliveries; you can save 15 percent and get free shipping too.

What do you do to save money on diapers? Give us the poop!

The Poop on Pampers Dry Max

May 17th, 2010

I’m just as intrigued as anyone about the ensuing controversy surrounding Pampers diapers with new Dry Max and the growing Facebook contingent of parents who say that it’s causing diaper rash.

In case you missed ABC World News Tonight’s coverage of the diaper debate, click here to view it: http://abcnews.go.com/entertainment/video/miss-usa-rima-fakih-tripping-10664406&tab=9482931&section=4765066.
As a parent, word of mouth–whether it’s which stroller to get, what daycare to stay away from or enroll in or which bottle your baby liked best, can be a powerful influence in terms of what or what not to buy and other baby-care decisions. You think, “If it’s right for that mom or that baby, it’ll probably be right for me or my baby.” Facebook and Twitter are taking the concept of word of mouth and amplifying it to a national level. There’s certainly nothing wrong with that but as a journalist and a mom whose been swayed by other mom’s opinions from time to time and discovered that their advice wasn’t always right for me, I’m naturally skeptical about going with the crowd.
 
The Bottomline for Me–which may not be right for you
If my kids were still in diapers, I’d definitely buy Pampers with Dry Max and try them out. I love the concept that they’re 20 percent thinner than traditional Pampers and wear like underwear. From my research for Consumer Reports Best Baby Products, I know that some babies are more prone to diaper rash than others. Did you know, for example, that breast-fed babies are less susceptible to diaper rash than formula-fed babies, especially as they transition to solid food? Also, some babies are more susceptible to diaper rash in general because their skin is just more sensitive.  Overall, diaper rash can be caused by lots of things. But before someone told me a particular diaper caused diaper rash, I know I’d have to see for myself.
What about you? What’s your take on Pampers with Dry Max? 

Keep Your Baby Riding Rear Facing Longer

May 13th, 2010

The Graco Snugride 35 is just one example of a car seat that allows kids to ride rear facing longer. It's for infants from 5 to 35 pounds and less than 32 inches tall.

You know to keep your baby riding rear facing in her infant or convertible car seat in the back seat until she’s at least a year old and weighs at least 20 pounds. But did you know there’s a movement a foot to keep infants and toddlers riding rear facing much longer than that? Many manufacturers of infant and convertible car seats are upping the weight limit in the rear-facing mode to 30 – 35 pounds. (Note: Infant car seats are only used rear-facing; they’re never used foward facing.) With the new upper weight limits on many car seats in the rear-facing mode, kids can conceivably ride backward until they’re 2 ½ to 3 years old, as long as they’re within the height and weight limits of the seat.

Statistics show that riding backward is safer. Kids are up to 75 percent less likely to be injured in a crash. But what do you think? Any downsides to riding this way longer? If your toddler was within the weight and height limits in the seat in the rear-facing mode, would you still be tempted to turn the seat around before she turns 2 1/2 or 3? Why? Just curious.

I look forward to your comments.

Baby Registry Rules

May 12th, 2010

Check out my new baby shopping tips in the Atlanta Journal Constitution: http://blogs.ajc.com/atlanta-shopping-deals/2010/05/10/shopping-for-new-baby/?cxntlid=sldr_hm. The piece covers how to get the most mileage out of your baby registry. In general, be sure to have more than one registry since gift givers tend to like options, and keep in mind that you can register for cash too, which comes in handy down the line, at sites such as www.depositagift.com and www.myregistry.com.

Happy new baby!

Car Seat Smarts

May 6th, 2010

Shopping for an infant car seat, a convertible seat or a toddler booster? Then you’ll want to check out “Ride, Baby, Ride,” my piece on infant, convertible and toddler car seats in this month’s ShopSmart magazine, (June 2010), which is on newstands now. In the piece, I worked with Consumer Reports to report on the best infant seats, convertible car seats and toddler booster seats. You’ll find our top picks in each of these categories, which helps take the guesswork out of car seat shopping. You’ll also find installation tips and how to know when to trade up to the next-level car seat. I hope you find the piece helpful! Let me know…

Stopping High Chair High Jinks

May 5th, 2010

Here’s a question from Amber of New York City, mom to 1-year old, Chloe:

“My baby loves to drop things from her high chair, whether it’s food, her bottle, or her spoon, and squeals with laughter when I fetch things again and again. It’s fun yet exasperating. How can I teach her to stop?”

If your baby is under a year old, you really can’t teach her to stop. In fact, throwing food helps your baby learn cause and effect–if she throws food from her high chair, it falls down and you’ll pick it up. Instead of getting exasperated, play along for another round or two. When you’ve had enough, say something like: “That was fun, but Mommy isn’t going to play anymore,” then stop picking up the food.

By the time your baby is a toddler, though, she’s old enough–and developmentally capable of understanding–that flinging food isn’t okay. Toddlers may still do it when they’re bored or want attention, or if they don’t like what’s being serving. To end the antics, state a rule positively, such as: “Food is for eating and it belongs on your plate.” Stay calm. “A huge reaction from you will only reinforce the bad behavior,” says Marcy Guddemi, Ph.D., executive director of the Gesell Institute of Human Development in New Haven, CT. If your toddler keeps it up, end the meal.
Game over.

High chair shopping tip: Look for a fixed center crotch post, which prevents your baby from slipping under the tray and getting his head caught between the tray and the chair (it happens!). Check the leg openings, too. They shouldn’t be large enough for a child to fit both legs in one. And inspect the safety belt. Some high chairs have three-point harnesses, but a five-point harness (shoulder straps that attach to the waist belt) is better.

Decorating Tips on Breezy Mama

May 1st, 2010

In case you’re looking for another cool baby site, check out Breezy Mama. In fact, they just posted my tips on how to decorate the nursery for less: http://breezymama.ning.com/forum/topics/baby-products-tip-sheet-4-ways.

I have lots of practical tips like this in my book, Consumer Reports Best Baby Products. What would you like to know more about? Do you have a niggling baby product question? Ask away and I’ll answer asap.

Sandra

Should babies younger than 6 months wear sunscreen?

April 29th, 2010

Quick quiz

True or false:  Babies younger than 6 months shouldn’t wear sunscreen.

 Answer False. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says it’s safe for infants younger than 6 months to wear minimal amounts of sunscreen on small areas such as the face, neck and the back of your baby’s hands. In general, however, the AAP advises that you keep a baby younger than 6 months in the shade of a tree, umbrella, or stroller canopy and to dress your baby in lightweight long-sleeved shirts and long pants. Why? “Babies are more prone than adults to sunburn because their skin is thinner and their body’s protective tanning response isn’t developed,” explains Jim Chow, M.D., associate director of the division of dermatology at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine, in Columbia.

If you can’t avoid exposing your baby to the sun, use a broad-spectrum sunscreen with a sun-protection factor (SPF) of 15 or higher that contains titanium dioxide or zinc oxide.

Blue Lizard Australian sunscreen (available at Amazon) contains zinc oxide and titanium dioxide.

These key ingredients physically block the sun’s harmful UVA and UVB rays without irritating your baby’s sensitive skin. Otherwise, try to keep your baby covered.