Archive for September, 2009

“Mommy, I have to go!”

Thursday, September 24th, 2009

You can change a diaper anywhere, but when your little one no longer wears diapers and you’re out and about, finding the nearest restroom can suddenly become a potty emergency. Thank goodness for the plethora of Starbucks and Barnes and Noble retailers. (Before these folks arrived, there seemed to be no public restrooms in New York City, where I worked in a previous life.)  Anyway, if you’re not near a Starbucks or B&N, it’s peace of mind to know that you can use your smart phone to log onto http://www.tena.us/en/General/Bathroom-Finder2/. There, you’ll find a U.S. bathroom locator sponsored by the incontinence drug manufacturer, Tena.

This I learned from a press event I attended yesterday on yes, incontinence. And though the bathroom finder may be geared for grown-ups who’ve gotta go, it’s great for parents of small children, too. Just plug in your city and state and the bathroom finder will give you the address of nearest the restroom.

If you’re so inclined, you can even map out the restrooms so you know where your child can go ahead of time. Yes, it’s just one more thing to think about and add to your travel to-do list. But it may save your sanity later.

High-Tech Childproofing

Friday, September 18th, 2009

On September 6th, I was privileged to be a guest on Childhood Matters, which is a one-hour weekly call-in radio show on 98.1 KISS-FM in the San Francisco Bay area. (To listen to a podcast of that program, visit http://www.childhoodmatters.org.) The subject of that show was preventing accidents at home. During the program, a listener called in to share a scary home incident that happened when her mother was watching her baby. I’ll relay it here.

During her baby’s nap, the baby started crying. Grandma, listening carefully and watching on the baby monitor, saw the baby lying face down in the crib. Thinking her grandson’s crying was a little off, Grandma went to investigate and found the baby with the cord from the baby monitor wrapped around his neck. The monitor was a multi-room model with cameras that attached to the wall. Apparently, the baby had wrestled his crib over to the wall and became entangled in the cord from the camera focused on his crib. Fortunately, Grandma arrived just in time and the baby was fine, aside from a few ligature marks on his neck.

The listener resolved the problem by getting a cord cuff, which covers and adheres cables to the wall and safety expert, Mark Altman of The Childproofer, who was also a guest expert on the show that morning, agreed that that was the right thing to do.

It goes to show you that even though babies are just sleeping in their crib, which they do up to 18 hours per day initially, they can still get themselves into a heck of a lot of trouble. Baby monitors, cell phones, and other high-tech items can add another level of childproofing. If you haven’t cuffed your cords, do it.  Here’s just one example of a cord cover: cord cover

6 Ways to Save Big on Baby Gear

Saturday, September 12th, 2009

2009_Best-Baby-Products-ConBaby products are an $8.9 billion industry in the U.S., with hundreds of new products added to the lineup each year. With an ever increasing range of choices, and seemingly limitless options, shopping for a new baby can be daunting and expensive. Retailers and manufacturers are smart. They realize that new parents want the best for their baby and that they’re willing to shell out for the privilege. It’s no wonder that a typical middle-income family with one child in the U.S. will spend an average of $13,590 on baby’s first year alone!

You can spend less, get better value, and still buy high-quality, safe products. And you don’t necessarily need to spend a bundle to get them.

The following budget cuts won’t compromise your baby’s safety, which should always be your top concern.

  • Go with store-brand disposable diapers. Although Consumer Reports tests show that the name brands are the top-rated disposable diapers, because overall they tend to be more absorbent and fit better, you may find store brands more than adequate—and a cost cutter. You’ll save about 3 cents per diaper if, for example, you compare the cost of size 1 Par­ent’s Choice, Wal-Mart’s store-brand diapers, with Pampers, also size 1. Saving pennies per diaper may not seem like much, but with 10 changes per day (which is reasonable with an infant), you’d bank about $9 per month and $108 per year using the size 1 store brand diapers.
  • Breast-feed if you can. It’ll save you $2,000 a year, the money you’d spend on infant formula.
  • If you choose or need to use infant formula, buy milk-based formula. It tends to cost less than soy-based formula, so don’t buy soy or another type of special formula unless your pediatrician recommends it. The powdered version is the least expensive. And keep in mind that all infant formula sold in the U.S. must meet the same basic nutrient requirements specified by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, so if your baby likes store-brand formula, buy it—in the largest-size cans you can find.
  • Don’t buy designer duds. Babies may be able to wear them only once or twice before they outgrow them, which inspires new-parent guilt and the sense that the money could have been better spent on diaper, wipes, or formula. If you can’t resist, watch for sales at your favorite baby stores and scout for designer wear at secondhand shops.
  • Buying a crib mattress? Nix the convertible option. If you’re planning to convert your baby’s crib to a toddler bed, put this added feature in the “not necessary” category. While “dual firmness” convertible mattresses are available with an extra firm side for infants and a cushier, standard or memory foam on the other for toddlers, you don’t need to spend the extra money. Convertible mattresses cost $220 to $400 , compared to $90 to $200 for a non-convertible mattress. Don’t worry. Your baby will still be happy with a firm (non-convertible) mattress when he becomes a toddler.
  • Shopping cart covers—feel free to skip this purchase entirely. It’s not a must-have. In fact, using one may be more trouble than it’s worth. Keep in mind that the covers themselves can harbor harmful germs—from blood as well as mucus and feces—longer than a bare cart handle because the germs can get embedded in the fabric. That’s why it’s important to wash a shopping cart cover in hot water and a bleach-based disinfectant and dry it completely after every time you use it. Another reason I put shopping cart covers in the “optional” category: These days, many supermarkets supply sanitizing wipes for cleaning the cart handle and seat when you walk in, which can do a good job of reducing the germ load there. If wipes aren’t provided, keep a small supply of disinfecting wipes in your purse or diaper bag. Even after wiping, keep your baby from gnawing on the handle by bringing his favorite teething toy.

Consumer Reports Best Baby Products (Tenth Edition) is chock full of money-saving advice. It’s organized in a handy A to Z format and reviews a wide range of essential baby (and parent) gear, with an emphasis quality and safety. It will help you find the best value and give you the information you need to determine when a bigger price tag means better quality and when it doesn’t, which baby products are must-haves and which are a waste of money, and which products might even be unsafe.

What did you do to save money on baby products? Post your own tips here.